A storm is coming and it’s going to get bumpy! #TotalReform

A storm is coming and it’s going to get bumpy! #TotalReform

A storm is coming and it’s going to get bumpy! #TotalReform

As a parent, the worst thing you could ever do is stop another parent from seeing their child/ren. This also goes for anyone else that is attached to it or facilitates it. People power is one of the strongest powers in the world it does matter who you are or what position you hold do not go against the people.

I deal with parental alienation and false allegation cases on a daily basis and I would say around 85%-90% are identical. That is a very high percentage on the balance of things and how do they all start with parental alienation. The angry bitter parent with care decides that they don’t want the other parent around because they are hurt and angry (yes in most cases that is it) nothing more.

This can cause an awful amount of anxiety and stress for the non-resident parent to deal with after having a close loving relationship with their child/ren. So, in order for the non-resident parent to see their kids, they have to apply to the courts for a c100 or equivalent for a child arrangements order to be able to see their kids.

In the majority of cases two things happen next which all of them have similar patterns, the police will be contacted with false allegations of harassment, domestic violence or child abuse. I know right how sick is that the person you decided to have a child with has now called the police and made these horrendous allegations about you.

Then comes Child Support/Maintenance, yes it comes in as soon as or just before you submit that c100 form for access. You’re probably reading this and thinking but why if you are the birth parent of the child/ren do you have to go to court to see your own child! I am still trying to figure that out myself but unfortunately the so-called “system” supports it. So not only do you have the stress of not seeing your child/ren but you now have court and child support on your back for a child you are not allowed to see.

The alienator knows if they stop the other parent from seeing the child/ren their payments increase and so does the fees child support/maintenance collect. So that is why child support/maintenance actively encourage parents with care not to speak or communicate with the other parent. Again you might think this can’t be right, unfortunately, it is and has been challenged on open letters and freedom of information requests.

All the cases I deal with are all following suit and this is where people power have come into play. You are now forcing people to come together to discuss their cases and share information which is a very very big mistake. You are now handing the power back to the people and sure enough, they will act upon it and combat the injustice you have created.

People are fed up of this cycle continuing which is having a massive impact on people’s mental health, finances and general well-being. The storm is coming, watch this space!

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Roxanne Pallett the computer says NO!

Roxanne Pallett the computer says NO!

Roxanne Pallett and Ryan Thomas | Celebrity Big Brother 2018

I am shocked by what I have seen in the media with regards to the false allegations that came from Roxanne Pallett about Ryan Thomas. Firstly, when I heard about it, I immediately thought to myself how could this possibly happen in the Big Brother house with so many cameras. This was obviously before I saw the camera footage of the incident. Some men when they are in a good place and are happy like to play fight it’s almost like a man saying “I am comfortable around you”.

Now, from what I saw in that video that was not even play fighting it was nothing it had no substance to it to even be categorised as anything but harmless flirting. You can see this incident below which had caused such an uproar on social media and other media platforms.

Roxanne Pallett and Ryan Thomas | Celebrity Big Brother 2018

I can honestly say I never blog about things like this but it really upset me, why because men/fathers get false allegations made against them on a regular basis. This can have a detrimental effect on that person career, life in general and mental health. This is unacceptable behaviour and how anyone in their right mind supports false allegations should be reprimanded. I actually feel sorry for Ryan Thomas and all those men who have had false allegations proven and the men that are still fighting for them to be proven.

These sorts of false allegations have been accepted by the media and courts as gospel for so long and in a weird way, I am happy this happened. As it shows that false allegations do exist and that it is becoming a major problem in today’s society against men. I do believe this is not as black and white as it seems as there may be an underlying mental health issue with Roxanne Pallett which has led to this false allegation. As she seems very fragile person and that there may be something bubbling under the surface which needs to be addressed.

Nevertheless, this will have a large psychological effect on Ryan for the rest of his life as something so trivial has been blown out of proportion. Let’s flip the script for a second, what if this happened off camera with no witnesses then what! I tell you what, he would have been found guilty immediately by the press and the media. His career would have been over and on top of that, he would have been arrested for the allegation. The weeks and months of uncertainty again would have had a detrimental effect on him and everyone around him.

This is why it is important that all allegations are investigated properly and thoroughly before it is leaked or released to the media. Below is the public apology Roxanne Pallett made and to right she did as this will still effect Ryan in a way she could never imagine!

Roxanne Pallett apologises to Ryan Thomas

I hope this is a lessoned learned by everyone when it comes to false allegations and what it can do to a person’s life. Let’s hope valuable lessons have been learnt and that false allegations get challenged at every opportunity!

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